The beauty of the open road

I had one of those moments recently. You know, when you’ve had a pretty good day, and you’re feeling pretty good about life, and then, hypothetically speaking, you have a conversation with your child that doesn’t go so well and suddenly you find yourself frustrated and angry, and you think, “What just happened?!”

I don’t know about you, but throughout any given day, I am continually waking up and going back to sleep. I have moments of awareness and then I slip back into old patterns of reactivity.

But in the middle of my moment yesterday, something happened…Maybe it was the result of years of meditation practice or maybe I was just tired of the same old thing. I was able to step out of the conversation and see myself. I realized that I was more frustrated with myself than my child and I was overreacting out of my own impatience. And the second I realized this pattern, I knew I had a choice: I could either let go of my need to control the situation, apologize and laugh at myself, or I could stay stuck in all the old patterns.

It wasn’t easy, but chose to let go. And, instead, I opened up to the moment, to vulnerability, to being wrong, to uncertainty, to humility, to failure, and to not knowing. I let go of any preconceived images of myself as wise or rigid or good mother or bad mother, and I opened to the opportunity to start over and see, as Pema Chodron says, “each moment as completely new and fresh.”

And felt like the narrator in Walt Whitman’s poem “Song of the Open Road”: “Afoot and light-hearted I take to the open road, healthy free, the world before me, the long brown path before me leading wherever I choose.” I’m grateful I had my moment. I learned a wonderful lesson about starting over, waking up, and about seeing the beauty of the open road, the open road of me.

Published by Musings

Certified Life Coach Certified Nutritionist Certified Yoga Instructor Certified Naturopath

3 thoughts on “The beauty of the open road

  1. What a beautiful reminder of how we can get trapped by ourselves and whispers from the past. At the same time, you illustrated that we can have a mid-day do-over any time we chose to love life, let go, and laugh at ourselves. Thank you for this post.


    1. The point I am trying to make is that we are not in a constant state of “awareness”; rather we are constantly given the choice to awaken and to open to life. Every single moment we can make this choice; and that is freeing!


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